Friday, 27 October 2017

Miller's Musings Parshas Lech Lecho: You Can't Have One Without The Other



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Possibly the greatest proponent of outreach that ever lived, was none other than Avrohom, our Patriarch.  Standing alone in his ideals and philosophies, he fought against the great tide of polytheism and emerged unscathed with great numbers persuaded by his truths and converted by his strength of belief.  When we are told that Avrohom brought with him the “souls that he made in Choron”, Rashi informs us that this refers to those he had brought under the wings of the Al-mighty.  So what happened to them? What happened to all these people who had been persuaded by Avrohom to follow the creed of ethical monotheism? It seems that no mention of them is ever made again.

Whenever the mantle of leadership is passed from one to another, there is almost always a certain amount of adjustment that must take place on account of the differences between the two leaders.  They will have different styles of leadership and different attitudes towards the priorities of their role.  Avrohom was known to exemplify the attribute of Chesed, kindness.  It may well have been his warmth and concern for others that led to his ability to bring in the masses to his way of thinking.  Yitzchok on the other hand, was a man who epitomised Gevurah, the trait of strength and discipline.  The characteristic of loving kindness was one which was easy to attract people towards, but when Yitzchok became the leader of Avrohom’s flock, they were unwilling to follow a path that demanded of them might and determination.  This unwillingness led to them falling by the wayside and in the end rejecting their newfound lives.

The journey for those who have made the decision to embark upon a religious Jewish life can sometimes be characterised by initial feelings of tremendous enthusiasm and excitement at the beauty and inherent goodness of an orthodox lifestyle.  This is then followed somewhere down the line by disappointment and inner turmoil when they see that the life that is required of them also involves grit, toil and fortitude.  Both these elements are equally true and both these elements are equally necessary.  The truth is that for all of us this is an equally important message.  Of course the way of the Torah is one of pleasantness and joy, but we should not be ignorant to the fact that there are times where resilience and strength is required to do that which is required of us, despite that which would get in our way. This is part and parcel of a Torah life and ultimately therein may lie our greatest achievements.  

*May the power of Shabbos endow us with the power to succeed*





לעילוי נשמת לאה בת אברהם 


לעילוי נשמת שרה יעל בת ברכה אסתר




Friday, 20 October 2017

Miller's Musings Parshas Noach: No Job Too Small

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A metaphor is a powerful tool used in all forms of literature and communication to express descriptions that may otherwise allude us.  Within the Torah, however, if one thing is portrayed as being akin to something else, the comparison is beyond the superficial, but rather reveals essential characteristics of that which it is compared to.  Rashi on the words “these are the offspring of Noach”, makes the comment that the main offspring of the righteous are their good deeds.  If it is as we have stated, then there must be far more to this association than a mere figure of speech.  In which case we must determine how exactly one’s mitzvos are fundamentally like one’s children.

The relationship that a parent shares with a child is entirely unique on any number of levels.  The love that a mother or father has for their child is something that transcends any obstacles or impediments to its existence.  No matter what a child does and no matter how much they may disappoint those who raised them, this deep sense of love remains intact, well beyond when it would have dissipated if challenged in this manner with any other relationship.  To relate this to mitzvos, Reb Moshe Feinstein zt’l informs us that this should also be our attitude towards them.  There will be times when our performance of mitzvos will not be to the standard that we would like or they may not be of as great consequence as we would like.  The truth is that every mitzvah is of infinite value, no matter to what degree of perfection it is done and no matter how insignificant it might seem.  Just as we never lose that love for our children, irrespective of their choices, so too we must always cherish every good deed that we do, irrespective of its impact and perceived worth.

One of the greatest challenges we face is the challenge to truly appreciate ourselves.  We may look around and see others who have achieved great things and garnered praise and admiration, and consequently look upon our own accomplishments as feeble in comparison.  This is a grave error in both its accuracy and in the effect that such thinking will create.  The truth is that each of us are given a role to accomplish and our task is not to look for the most prestigious acts to fulfil, but to take each moment and ask what it is we should be doing now.  Every time we choose to act according to the will of Hashem, we are realising the wishes of the Creator.  We must cherish each one of these choices and appreciate just how great they truly are.

*May each moment of Shabbos bring us appreciation of its true worth*

לעילוי נשמת לאה בת אברהם 
לעילוי נשמת שרה יעל בת ברכה אסתר



Wednesday, 11 October 2017

Miller's Musings for Shemini Atzeres: Gather Your Thoughts


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*Miller’s Musings for Shemini Atzeres*

*Gathering Your Thoughts*

What's in a name? Well in Judaism the answer is everything! Far from being a simple label to enable us to refer to things, a name in Hebrew expresses the very nature of that which it is used for. Not knowing why a particular day has a particular name is not something that can be simply glossed over, but rather needs careful thought to ensure we are able to understand the essence of the day and therefore the specific work that is required in it. A case in point is the Yom Tov of Shemini Atzeres which provides much discussion as to what exactly the name means and how we are to connect with it?      
From the moment Elul rears its head and all through the month of Tishrei, there is a system of progression, renewal and rebirth. Our task during this time is to attain fear of G-d, return to Him through repentance, imbue ourselves with a love for Him and feel His incredible love for us.  Done correctly these weeks should have been one in which we have made tremendous strides and internalised ideas and beliefs that are pivotal to our success as individuals and as part of a wider community. The danger is that all this amazing work can be lost if we do not do something to retain it. And that 'something' is Shemini Atzeres. The word Atzeres, says the Kerem Hatzvi, can mean to gather and our role and purpose on this day is to gather together everything we have accomplished over the past weeks and endeavour to assure that they stay with us long after the shofar's echo has faded and the Succah has been put away for another year. 

After such intense days in the presence of Hashem and the most profound reconnection with your Creator it is all too easy to sink back into the way things were and leave all that you have gained behind.  Shemini Atzeres is a chance to stop and gather all that we have worked towards so that it is not a fleeting moment of inspiration, but rather something that lasts with us and is the impetus for a new beginning. It is a day to find some time to think back over all the decisions that we made and all the resolutions that we resolved to implement in the future.  It is a chance to fortify our determinations and evaluate whether we are already moving in the direction that we set for ourselves.  Shemini Atzeres is the confirmation of all we have worked towards and the completion of the first step of our journey towards the new us.
*May the joy of the coming days inspire us to new beginnings*
                                                                                                                            
לעילוי נשמת לאה בת אברהם


לעילוי נשמת שרה יעל בת ברכה אסתר