Friday, 15 September 2017

Miller's Musings Parshas Netzovim-Vayelech: A Better Perspective



בס''ד
                            
*Miller’s Musings וַיֵּלֶך & נִצָּבִים פרשת*

*A Better Perspective*

Birthdays are generally considered happy occasions and in some cases important milestones in our lives.  Nevertheless it seems rather intriguing that we are told by Rashi that when Moshe announced that he was “one hundred and twenty years old today” he was actually conveying the message that this day, of his death, was actually also the date of his birth.  An interesting fact no doubt, but why did Moshe think it was necessary to pass on this particular piece of information to the Jewish people at this time?

Many centuries later, during the time of the story of Megillas Esther, Chazal tell us that Homon had to decide which date to choose for the destruction of the Jewish people.  After considering the matter he fell upon the idea to make it occur during the month of Adar, as this was the month in which Moshe Rabbeinu passed away, seemingly a sign that this month was one in which bad things could happen to the Jews.  What he failed to realise, however, was that this was also the month of Moshe’s birth and therefore had potential for tremendous good, as was eventually the case with the redemption that came about.  If we now rewind to the moment before Moshe’s demise, we can understand that the Jewish people would have also seen this as a sign of it being a time of negativity and it may have filled them with some trepidation before the impending wars in Canaan. Therefore, so as to revive their spirits, Moshe pointed out that there was no need for fear, as his birthday also fell within this time, nullifying the cause of their dread.

Life events are by their very nature open to interpretation.  How we choose to view them is entirely up to us.  Whilst one may perceive them as entirely negative another may choose to see the positives within them, however challenging that may sometimes be.  If we consider the case above, the fact of Moshe dying was something that was a foregone conclusion, so if it were to take place in any month then occurring on the day of his birth would be the best possible option, perhaps hinting at a life that has been lived with absolute perfection, coming full circle to its conclusion.  It may be that the very thing we see as bad is in fact quite the opposite or that hidden within are positive points that we could focus on if we make the choice to do so.  What happens to us is often beyond our control, but the impact it has is often within our own hands.

*May Shabbos reflect light on all that we see*
                                                                                                                            
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